navi's helpdesk service

i just started this service to help some of my friends who ask me some common questions and here i am to kinda help abit on the problem they are facing.

well, there's some people who asked me on it and here is the answers of a problem

real friend VS fake friend (or simply saying, friend who are wearing mask)

so how to different shape who is real and who is fake? let's just use an example of wanting to go out with this particular friend with his/her another group of friends.

So if he/she is a real friend is when he/she is going out with another group of friends, when you ask whether you can tag along, he/she will more than happy to welcome you tagging along as he/she don't mind letting you know more friends OR before you ask it, he/she would just invite you to tag along with the same motive, to know more friends.

however, if he/she is a fake friend is when he/she is going out with another group of friends, when you ask whether you can tag along, he/she will decline it and just don't give any reason for it on why you cannot tag along and could even just say, "it's just my personal reason" OR some other phrases that he/she cannot just say the reason.

so when you think of it, if he/she does say such thing as "personal reason" OR "personal preference" or other stuff, does that means "personal reason" against you? are you such a shame towards to this so call your friend's friends?

the reason when a person ask a person whom you treat as a real friend on whether you can tag along, is not wanting to spoil the outing, is for reasons such as, you are alone and cause you know that this friend of yours is doing some stuff that you are interested in too, that why you approached this friend. end up, even though is a rejection, is okay, but the phrasing of the text makes the person feel that he is outcasted and there's some reason that you are not invited to go out with the group of friends maybe due to reasons such as it will be a disgrace to you or disappointment to your group of friends to know this so call new friend.

if the person is a real friend, he/she will explain the real reason to it and not phrase everything to some secretive text. so what's the true reason behind it? who knows.

well, just want kind of friend OR simply honest saying, what kind of person are you in his mind that you cant read it? well..if he/she do treat you in this manner, then let me ask you the main question of this article, is he/she your real friend OR fake friend?

well, that's the difference between a real friend and a fake friend.

so what kind of friend are you?

hope this helps you on it (:

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